God put you in your family for a reason. He put you in your school, in your job, in your trials, in your situation, for a reason. He doesn't make mistakes. He created us all in His image and He knows what we're going through every day. We aren't cosmic orphans that happened to be created because two atoms touched each other. There is a God out there who cares about you and loves you more than you could ever know. God knows when you are struggling in life and many times it seems like he should be helping you.  In James 1 2-4 it talks about how you need to consider challenges tests.  One of the reasons God doesn't always seem to help is because what good is a test if the teacher tells us all the answers.  Instead you can read His word for guidance about what you need to do this way instead of telling us the answers He guides us where He wants us to go but we have to work hard to get there. He is with you every step of the way and you should lean on Him for help because you can't do everything but you also have to put in the effort to make it to his destination.