Chapter 4 Confidence

How to act confident even when you are not!!
Chin up

Shoulder straight

Eye contact

Smile

And voila! You are the most confident person in the room.

Because you actually are...

Remember You Are Special

Lets share these tiny incidents

Let me know in the comment box below if you could relate with any of these events

Going for an interview and feeling nervous?Heading for your exam, are well prepared, still not feeling confident?Meeting someone for the first time, want to leave a long lasting impression yet having cold feet?Going for a very important meeting and feeling jittery?

We all have faced such situations at least or more in our life time and no matter how well prepared we are, we feel nervous.

I have also had clients who say "I just want to be confident like you."

Remember confidence is overrated.

I might act and look confident but you should see me if I am going on a stage with a microphone to sing a song...

Fact alert: I am a terrible single.

So no matter how confidently I walk up the stage I'd be jittery inside, no amount of pep talk would help me because I am awful.

But when I am doing something I am good at, I am uber confident..

Let us make you too super confident

Also there are instances

When you ae well dressed

You are well prepared

And you know it all

Yet you don't feel too confident or

you are nervous while meeting a higher authority be your boss or your school principle or a person with higher designation.

Yes then I can come into the picture

Worry not

Wait

Pause

Let the world go still

Give yourself a minute

Do nothing

Don't even tap your feet

Focus on your breath

"in and out" Do it 5 times

feeling better?

Use your pointer and push your chin upwards and smile.

You want more?

You got more..

Push back your shoulders

Relax

Repeat 5 times.

Now look at yourself eye to eye

Repeat 5 times

"I am the best. I feel confident"

last not the least

Smile; gratitude

Pass words of gratitude

Thank you god for beautiful life

Thank you god for the confidence

Thank you god for my success today.

If you have time keep on being grateful to whoever and whatever that comes in mind . I am grateful for sunshine, for water, for air I breathe, for mother earth, for the sky ... it keeps on going.

See the level of confidence you feel.

Did it make any difference?

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