Chapter 3 How To Impress othersDo you want to impress someone?
Do you want to impress someone?
Are you constantly struggling to be liked by others?
If yes
You are at right place at right time
Today we are cracking the secret code of how to impress others.
It is a human instinct, a basic characteristics that everyone wants to be liked by others
Let's get started
Appearance: A book is always judged by its cover, yes the original saying is manipulated by me because I still remember my grade 1 textbook with a picture of animated kids playing cricket. It was so attractive I still remember it
Hence one should work on his appearance to impress others
Dress to impress
Here I do not mean expensive brands, luxurious accessories or high end make.
A clean fresh face with neatly ironed clean clothes does the magic.
Also remember your smile
A genuine ear to ear smile connects to the heart. If you reach someone's heart, you have won half the battle
Also remember fragrance. Sweet fregrances influences our nervous system, a perfume will not only help you but will also impress others.
Hence a pretty experience is a must to impress others
3. Punctuality: is respecting one's own commitment. It is a super power that we all possess but very few use it with conviction.
Hence always be on time. It is an all time favorite.
Do you remember when you hosted a party, you might remember who came 1st 2nd 3rd and the rest were just part of crowd.
Hence punctuality plays a great role in creating impression
4. Be honest
Be genuine be truthful
Honesty is the best policy, this is very trending even now. You should be honest and genuine in whatever you do. Be yourself, be genuine, remember a beautiful swan is an ugly duckling in a ducks family.
So always be honest and be yourself.
Again never ever use lies to impress others because life of lies is short and an honest and truthful person is liked by one and all
5. Be generous with compliments Compliment is the best gift that we can give to others. Again it is free. So be generous give lots of compliments be it about the person, his personality, his hairstyle and anything and everything you find nice.
Also try to appreciate tiny things be it beautiful weather, easy transport, chilled water anything.
A person who is generous with compliments is a positive person and positive people are liked by all
6. Be selfless
When you are selfless you are at your best self. Be selfless and others will be impressed. Do tiny things to help others, give a glass of water, happily show directions, tell the time, whatever good things you do, do it with your heart and soul
Rhonda Bryne in her book Secret has said that when you do good to others goodness comes back to you in multiples. Hence be selfless and people will like you. I myself like people who are selfless
7. Judgements; I don't care.
We are constantly every moment every minute passing judgement be it weather, be it a person or a cup of tea, we have something to say, it's okay and its like being human.
Another human trait is we are constantly bothered about being judged by others.
'What will others say?' this thought lingers on our shoulders like tons of weight.
Just throw away that weight. Have 'I don't care' attitude.
Don't get affected by what others say to you.
You'll do best thing. You'll be impressive
First step in impressing others is impress your own self, if you like the person in front of mirror others will like it too.
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