smut, NSFW (not safe for work), sex scenes, whatever you wanna call it, (haha I already feel kinda weird writing this.) for all the virgins out there, lemme just tell you now, you're going to have a hard time writing this. it'll be almost impossible because you have no idea what to feel or do or think. this is the kind of thing you have to experience first before writing. and note: ITS DIFFERENT FOR EVERYONE. I REPEAT - IT IS DIFFERENT. FOR. EVERYONE. all sexual experiences are NOT the same. hut here's some tips for writing these types of scenes.

(for girls)

1) first of all, not all guys are verbal about how they feel. what I mean is, when you touch him or something, not all guys immediately moan or make any sound. thats what a lot of fanfic writers don't get. they sometimes dont groan when you do that. not exactly to the fact that what you're doing is wrong or they don't like it, just some guys are quite.

2) a lot of people think that it will ALWAYS hurt their first time, which isn't exactly true. some girls are not going to feel pain their first time. some girls bleed, some girls cry, some girls only feel the pleasure. which could be because any of these three reasons: guy is small (his size), girl has been stretched out enough, or girl is wet enough to use as lubricant.

(I feel so weird rn)

3) don't know where to put your hands? run them through his hair, rake them down his back. don't feel awkward and don't get stuck in your head, it's not like everything you're doing is wrong, just do what feels right.

4) if you're both virgins, it's going to be awkward as hell. there is no escaping it, you're both going to be shy, because you're both insecure and inexperienced. It's just how it is. And in the scene, make sure you show it. have that awkwardness, have that hesitation. show us the insecurity, show real emotion in it. otherwise, it will feel flat and emotionless.

5) how effective are condoms? well, it's honestly a fifty / fifty. same with birth control. if used together, you'll be good. but it depends on the roughness and pace of.. ya know.. how he's hittin it. (my goodness.. why did I agree to this haha) if he's too rough or fast, it could rip and tear the condom. if you're man has a strong pull out game and you're on birth control, your first time, you won't wanna use a condom cause condoms are uncomfortable sometimes and it will ruin your first time experience.

6) should you shave? honestly, yes. will it be gross if you don't? well, not really. I mean, it's like your period. it's natural. It's something that happens to everyone. it will just be more comfortable if you do.

7) should you look presentable? would your partner want you to? i mean, in the sense of wearing lingerie or a garter belt or something, sure. it's all on your partner's deception or in what makes you feel comfortable or sexy. either way.

8) what will you feel physically? im not sure how to describe it. it's just something you have to feel, not describe. just go read smut and just go by that or something.

9) fingering.. (I'm sorry, that word just makes me cringe) ehem. anyway. fingering has a primary purpose, which is to stretch you out and get you ready. unless your guy just wants to pleasure you a little. there's that too. but if you're not stretched out, it will hurt like hell. it will feel like a sharp pain, almost like a cramp, in your lower stomach

10) describe the characters breathing. they're going to be panting, catching their breath. the air around them will feel hot and they might start sweating. also describe how their skin feels, the look in their eyes before and after.

there isn't a specific way to do it, you just need to feel it. everyone has a different way of it, just try to go by the moment. if you're comfortable with the person, don't be shy or scared. same thing with describing it. there's not a specific way to describe it. you just try to do it the best you can.

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