Yo chang.

Sup bitch.

I have something to ask.

Go ahead. I'm all ears👀☕

So I'm in a situationship with this girl I'm falling for. Her name is Aimee.

*sigh* we barely started but I already know where this is going. Continue.

Well I wouldn't exactly call it a situationship since she has a boyfriend. But we have hooked up a couple of times.

*spits tea* NIGGA WHAT 😦. YOU'RE TELLING ME THIS BROAD IS CHEATING ON HER BOYFRIEND?!

I wouldn't calling it cheating-

She's in a relationship with the guy right?

Yes.

And she's hooking up with you?

Yes.

Does her mans know?

....no.

Cheating my nigga ☕.

Okay but her relationship with him is dysfunctional. They have been fighting and arguing.

And she's still with him?

Yes...

Then it's still cheating 👀☕.

You're not exactly helping.

I am. By spitting facts.

....

How do you know about this. What goes on in her relationship with the boyfriend.

Well whenever they argue or fight she always comes to me and talks about it. I comfort her. Sometimes things progress further that comforting.

.....I ain't gonna comment. Okay so you said her relationship with her boyfriend is dysfunctional and things are not working out. Why is she still with him.

Because she loves him. The guy keeps fucking up and hurting her. He hasn't been supportive of her. But she still decided to stay with him hoping things will change. I've lost count of how many times he kept repeating the same thing over and over again after she forgave him.

Yet she comes to you when things don't go her way with him and goes back to him.

I honestly didn't mind. I mean if she ever felt like she needed someone to confide in she could always come to me.

But don't you think that she's using you? I mean her coming to you when her bf is being an ass then getting intimate. Seems to me like you're a distraction from whatever bullshit she puts up with her mans and that's a HUGE red flag. Don't you ever that get hurt that she's treating you like a back plan. A second option. A side nigga. Don't you ever get tired of it.

.....I do from time to time. It sucks feeling like she can only come to you when she needs something and once she has it she leaves.

Exactly! You deserve better. You should reciprocate the same energy she's giving you and look for other people who might treat you better. Because clearly she ain't doing that apparently.

Well I did try it. But when she caught me with another girl and she got mad at me and told me not to go around talking to other girls-

Wait. Hol up. You tell me this bitch got mad at you for doing yourself a favour and taking interest in other people. When SHE'S in a relationship.

Yes....

*inhales* please tell me you didn't listen to her.

.....about that.....

😐 come here. *back hand* ARE YOU DENSE. WHY THE FUCK WOULD YOU LISTEN TO HER. She has no right whatsoever to be mad at you for talking to other people.

But I was in the wrong.

Honey...that gal should know not nice to put you in the fridge and only microwave you when she wants to eat🙂 because that's exactly what she's doing.

I'm sorry to say this but this gal is toxic and you need to cut her out of your life ASAP. I don't care if you love her nor do I care about the history you have with her, no person deserves to be treated like a second option and not THE option. You are worth way more than that homie.

But I would recommend you focus on yourself first before involving people in your life. Last thing you need is hurting them because of your unresolved issues