So this issue has caught my attention so let's talk about it.

Should you send nudes to your partner?

This may vary depending on the situation.

Sometimes our partners pressure and emotionally blackmail us into doing it. Like you can be flirting or sexting your bae and suddenly he asks for your nudes. Your first response would be: no...I don't feel comfortable showing my body like that. Or you think it's morally wrong right? But then bae keeps pushing and insisting and saying shit like: if you love me then send me nudes. Somewhere along those lines.

If your bae throws shit like that then they're assholes. You communicated that you're uncomfortable fulfilling their request but they keep insisting and pressuring you to do it. What happened to respecting people's boundaries.

But chang. What if you decide on your own to see the nudes?

Then if you do then they should be prepared to face the consequences.

If you and and your partner decide to break up for reasons and your partner decides to be petty and leak those nudes you're going to be in a tight and compromised position. Or your partner might have shown their homies your nudes.

Your partner is at fault for doing you dirty like that there's no denying that. You can report it to the police.

But at the same time you put yourself in that position when you decided to send those nudes because I along with other people can assume that you knew what you were getting yourself into.

Tho I've never sent nudes to my ex boyfriends, I did send a voice note to Elliott, my third ex, telling him about how he made me feel when we were making out and how much I loved him, only to hear from his friends who were my friends tell me that he shared this voice note with them. And that was before we broke up.

Was I hurt at what he did.  Yes. Very much so.

Was I infuriated at him for sharing that vn with his friends and laughed about with them and made it seem like I was stupid and desperate for him. Yes sir.

Was I embarrassed of myself for being dumb and stupid for sending that vn in the first place without considering the consequences? You damn right I was.

There are so many ways to show you love someone. Sending nudes ain't it fam. No matter how much you trust the person it ain't it coz you're don't know what this person does with the nudes and you don't even know how many people this person has showed your nudes.

Unless the person puts a ring on your finger and presents a marriage certificate with both your signatures then they can see your nude body as they please. PERIODT.