So here's a shocking idea for the ladies and gents out there. Every dude is different. Some prefer head to sexz. Some like the back door party. Some just wanna play with their wangs. Soooo what works for one might not work for the next.

Just. Like. You.

Variety is key to a good story. Have your small sassy bottoms, your gangly awkward tops, your buff boys in denial AND give them a personality set that makes you happy.

For instance: I don't care if you are the hottest guy in the room, if you walked up and grabbed my dick I would deck you. Unless I was really high, then I might just giggle hysterically and tell you that hurts my peepee.

The point is, foreplay is a thing... and some guys like that. (Most dudes I know in fact.) They like the kissing, mood setting, flirting fun with a new mark. In fact it can really make a story spark and it shows their personality.

Two dudes meet and one is all "ride me bitch" with an 11 incher and the other is all "oh daddy take me" ...but there's no prep and he a virgin? "No please. Oh god. Ow ow ow. I can't look." That's my reaction.

Your masochist be all over that shizz but I barely know these guys so how am I supposed to love them? This trope is not for romance. Maybe I'll wank to it a bit if I'm desperate and I can get my boy into it.

Same with the rough or easy jacking off. Some like it fast and hard. Some just do an easy tug. Hardly anybody likes actual biting. (I mean please, that's precious down there and teeth are dangerous, but see masochist note above.)

Decide how innocent, cute and smart he is... But don't forget to give him a bedroom persona and stick to it.