I don't get why we have double standards.

In societies eyes:
Gay = Bad
Lesbian = Hot
Why? I don't even get it, it's illogical!

Also I was scrolling in the comments section of a YouTube video, I saw someone comment(not exact but it was similar) "White people just shouldn't use the n word."
Now, I taught myself to never limit yourself for anything, and I mean anything. Words were meant for people to use we don't just make words for us to ignore them forever, now do we?

Sure, the "n word" might be offensive but it's only offensive because you want it to be and you think it is. It really isn't offensive, it originally wasn't meant to describe a color at all when it was first created.

If I see any comments like "well, we're in a post-slavery time, it's offensive to black people." Well, just what, white people were slaves as well, but no one cares about white people. Women and children were taken into slavery and raped and killed, just like black people were.