okie so

somebody told me "oh to make it easier when you decide to get married just marry someone from your culture"

like what on earth

how do i do that

how is that possible

IM FREAKING MIXED
AND FROM 3 DIFFERENT COUNTRIES
THATS THREE DIFFERENT CULTURES FOR GOODNESS SAKE

like how am I supposed to pick a culture

also considering; certain mixes are pretty common right? but mine is most definitely not, like the only people I know from my mix are like my siblings and I sooooo

and on top of that, with all the guys I know from my countries, most I wouldn't even think about dating, let alone marrying. ew. just ew.

I'm feeling tired so I'm gonna stop here before I start writing random nonsense - I don't think I've ever been so thankful for autocorrect lol
as always, thank you for coming to my ted talk x