January 01,2020

My ultimate goal is to be at peace with myself, eliminate toxic feelings, elements and energies from my life, unlearn negative and harmful practices and thought patterns, stop checking for people that don’t check for me, create a space for myself that is nurturing for growth so that I may generate loving energy for myself and for others and nourish my spirit and balance my energies.

I have big dreams and I deserve to live a life I love and let that love radiate.

Next page.

It might feel like the doors are closed. All at once.
And you can't move or do anything but sit completely still.
Patience often comes unwillingly. It so often does. And that stillness and that quietude, that may have been what you needed.

Maybe those doors were closed because Allah wanted you in that room. Claustrophobic feelings, at first, don't allow you to see the blessings filling your small space.

And blessings are like magic.

What is ugly becomes beautiful and what is beautiful becomes divine. Allah chose this room for you.

He chose for those doors to be closed. He wants you here, with Him. Where you will remember Him. Where you will talk to Him. Where you will give Him your time. Because when those doors open, and they will, you will become distant.

But this time, maybe not as far away

. And because He loves you, He will bring you back to that blessed room again."

.

NEXT PAGE.

"After hardship comes ease, but the verse also suggests that with, and alongside hardship, comes ease. It’s not just that the hardship will end and that ease will follow, its that your difficulty is packaged with ease inside of it. There are moments in your day when the difficulty that’s been crippling you subsides from the forefront of your heart, and that is a mercy from God. The hope that you feel alongside your problems. The love that exists in your life despite of it. Sometimes those difficulties are what prompt you to look for it. Whatever has been troubling you, it will come to an end. But don’t overlook that ease that comes day to day. And I really felt it and needed it today.

January 02,2020.

"One year changes a lot. You change. As well as the people around you. Your habits change. And it is okay to change. It is okay that your favorite people are no longer your favorite. It is okay that life can push us along different crossroads. And it’s also okay, that a lot can happen in just one year.

I know life can be crappy and unfair, but change is inevitable.

.

January 03,2020

Get comfortable expressing your boundaries. Say “No”. Say “this makes me uncomfortable”. Say “I’m not interested”. Say “I need”. You have to advocate for yourself. You should not sit and be silently mad at people because they have crossed boundaries you never expressed.

Your boundaries and your needs and your desires are a reflection of who you are and your character. If you feel like no one really knows you, consider it may be because you haven’t told people who you are.

Find effective ways to communicate who you are to people who matter.

January 06,2020

The attitude of "that's just how I am, take it or leave it" is still a sign of immaturity.

As an adult, it's your responsibility to figure out which of your traits are toxic and are negatively impactful towards other people and the ones you love, and to eventually learn how to fix them.

At some point, we all gotta start making ourselves better individuals.

If you truly believe you don‘t have to change anything about yourself, even at the very least the worst in you, and that people will just have to deal with it, then sorry, you're still a child.

January 08,2020

Zona,

"You will have days where you feel better, and you will have days where you are tired.

Both are okay.

There is no magical cure.
You just need to close your eyes, and trust that the waves will pass, and soon you’ll be able to breathe again. Let it hurt. Let it bleed. Let it heal. And let it go.

Let it go.
Let it go.
Let it go.

Delete the things from the mind.bothering you.

Forgive yourself.

Next Page.

(I was scrolling and read)

Today's reminder:
No one would tell you the way.

You must go further, hit things, go with wrong directions, meet wrong people and get lost until you know your way.

READERS,

How are you all?
Tell me you are liking my random musings or not???
Share your thoughts.
You can contradict too .
Criticism is appreciated.

Click the star😂. And.comment.
If you really like , share with your friends,and too the people who are not often happy.

Happy Reading buddies♥