For some reason everyone thinks that John Laurens was

G a y
He had a wife and yeah he had a wife but no one calls Alexander gay and it's kinda stupid. What made John gay but Alexander not....

People in the 1700's were very passionate to their friends and John and Alex were friends
Not boyfriends
Friends.

I don't mind lams I just don't ship it because they were both married and hamilton had 8 flippin kids. 
8
He cheated with a girl not with a guy.

I rest my case