There's something I have to explain to you. And that you need to understand. Please. Sometimes, people don't feel good, or don't well enough. And sometimes, it's not only sometimes, it's almost always. And the thing is that sometimes you need to let people go. And it's not give up. Let people go is just accept that they don't always need you. Don't always need your friendship. And here is the problem. Maybe you think let people go is not brave, maybe you think it's giving up. But it's not. It's more complicated than that. Things are complicated, but once you've stopped to search to understand them, they become simple. And that's not the point. Sometimes when people feel bad, they think they need to be alone. And that's true. Or, at least, to don't have people speaking all around them. That's also true. When they feel bad, having a person starring at you and never stop asking you if you're fine, if you're sure that you're fine, it's the worse. That's not support, and that's the first thing I want you to understand.
You don't always have to understand people. I'm sorry, but you don't have to to love them. And you couldn't always understand why they feel bad. And asking them is not the solution. I promise you. You can just stay with them and
be with them. That's enough. And sometimes that's not. Sometimes they need to go to speak with other people... Yes, with somebody who aren't you. Even if you're friends. Because sometimes, friendship doesn't allow people to breathe. So yes, sometimes they need other people to get better. And that's not because of you, not because of them. I think that's the second thing I want you to understand.
And also. Really important. Sometimes, they won't talk to you as they did always, and that's not mean you aren't friends anymore. That's just mean they need space to breathe, and all yours suns and hearts and all don't allowed them to. And sometimes you're telling them you love them, and the only thing they want is to scream, scream, scream. Because sometimes people can't stand up to all the things who are attacking them.
So just sometimes... Allow them to be afraid, to be angry, to be unhappy, to don't put emojis on their mess, to don't speak with you, to don't answer your questions... Allow them to be themselves. Stay with them. And bring them back.