Okay so I told my dad I'm asexual and he thought I somehow got molested??? (To be fair, the other people that he knows that are ace did get molested at a young age) The first time I told him I was ace (which was a few days ago) he asked that and every time I have seen him since then he's asked that same question (but he rephrased it) :/ Okay. I get it. You want to make sure I haven't been molested but I've told you several times that I haven't.

And we were recently (a few hours ago) talking about me being asexual and he asked how I knew I was. I was going to say something along the lines of "it's like how someone knows they're gay or bi or straight (or any other sexuality)" but then he said something along the lines of "I would understand if you were bisexual but you're not." 

??????? Uuuummmm okay?? I'm not really sure what to make of that. So it would be okay if I was bi or gay or whatnot but not ace?(and he also said "it's definitely not hereditary" lol of course it's not. There are people of all different sexualities and genders in completely straight 'n cis families)

tbh I don't remember too much about the conversation :/

And recently he was telling me about an article he read about a Lesbian couple and their son. Now, the way he explained was kind of confusing. He said that the kid was around 11 or 12 and wanted to be female so his parents went with it and decided to give him hormone treatments. Then when he was 18 then he would have a sex change.

Then he said it was wrong of the parents to do that. Uhhhhh okay. I think if their kid REALLY wants it then it's fine (though in my opinion I think they should at least wait until they become a teenager and/or learn more about the subject).

So I looked up the article he was talking about and the article made it seem like he was being given hormone treatments even though he isn't transgender :/

tbh this made me a bit iffy about telling my dad I'm non-binary??? I was going to tell him before I got a binder but euughh