This is a five step process, hopefully some of you will find this helpful in some way.

Step 1.) Write a list of ideal qualities.

Step 2.) Have someone that knows you well mark off what you already are.

Step 3.) Look in a mirror with your new list.

Step 4.) Realize no one is perfect.

Step 5.) If you aren't who you want to be, want to be who you are.

You can be what you want to be, but maybe you already are, maybe you just didn't realize that.