PILLARS OF RELATIONSHIP
Sid breaks the embrace....makes tea for both of them....adds an extra spoonful of sugar in her tea...just the way she likes...both sitting on the bed sip the tea..while its about to be the evening...the sun is getting mellow...the sky is turning grey....soon it will be dusk....sid has his hands crossed across his chest...his legs are straight and he is continuously shaking his foot....Sana smiles looking at him from the corner of her eye....keeps the cup at her bedside table....turns towards sid ....still smiling...a little wider:
"meri tension kar raha hai na?? mere bare soch raha hai na tu" and she kisses him on the creek of his neck.... "bata naa...mere bare soch raha hai na?? mujhe pata hai...bol"
Sid's heaves a cute bunny smile and says slowly "nahi...hamare bare me" leaving sana to blush a bit....
"sidhartttttt sorryyyy.....jo maine aaj tere se aise gussa kiya....baat nahi ki...chid gayi tujhpe...bina jaane faltu attitude dikhaya tujhe...uske liye sorry...sachhi wali...aage se nahi karungi kabhi aisa...bus mood thik nahi tha...bhot gussa aa raha tha...chid chid ho rahi thi" and she cutely holds her both ears... pouting...sid couldn't help but smile widely...he holds her hand filling the gap of her fingers.... firmly....kisses her hand...
"tujhe pata hai shehnaaz.....kisi bhi relationship me...more specially in a love-relationship or husband-wife relationship....i feel uska base jo hota hai na wo important hota hai...do logo ko..unke pyar ko....us feeling ko jod ke rakhne ke liye....jab base strong ho na to koi bhi condition buri se buri hila nahi sakti....manti hai ye baat"
"hmm....sahi keh raha hai" she agrees to what he asks her
"to fir bata tere hisab se kya hona chahiye base of relationship?"
Sana takes a couple of minutes to think and says "samajhna ek dusro ko.....clear karna kuch misunderstanding hai to....pyaarrr bhottttt sara...jitna main karti hoon tujhse aur"
"hmm..aurrrrr"
She laughs.... "kuch nahi"
"shehnaaz aurrrr......"
"aur naughty naughty harakate karna...jiske baad sunflowers mile hain...sab dhua dhua" and she laughs aloud covering her mouth...sid slaps lovingly on her head "pagal...gadhi hai tu...pata hai na tujhe?? Poori filmy"
Sana pouts "kyu galat bola maine?? To tu hi bata de"
"nahi galat nahi bola....but tere sunflowers part hain....base nahi... main jitna samajh paya hoon...apne life ke experiences se relationship ke 4 main pillars hain jo ek dusre se interconnected hain...n equally important hain...kisi ek ka bhi balance bigda to relationship steep hone lagti hai"
"achaaaaaaaa.......kya hai wo chaar to fir wo bhi bata de"
"to sun na moti...bolne degi poora to to bataunga na....broader picture me
TRUST
FIDALITY
COMMUNICATION and
RESPECT
"second wala kya bola??"
"fidality....matlab being loyal in a relationship"
"ok....wo to main hoon...hamesha rahungi.... main kabhi dhokha nahi dungi...marte dum tak sirf tujhse hi nibhaungi...aang sang...mun sirf tujhse juda rahega "
He smiles at her spontaneous answer....he loved hearing this from her....but thinks to poke her a little "aur kartik aaryan aur tera Gautam gulati aa gaye to"
"ab tu trust ki baat kar raha hai na....main batati hoon tujhe kuch...teko pata hai koi bhi aa jaye....jab mujhe pata hai tu mujhse pyaar karta hai...aur main to matalab ki karti hi hoon to ab duniya ka kitta hi handsome banda kyu na aa jaye....mujhe koi fark ni padna hai ab...I am very loyal...I always was loyal" she giggles
"achha ek baat bata....bigg boss me jab Gautam gulati aya tha aur kartik aya tha aur maine un dono ko jhappi ki thi tujhe bura laga tha... possessive feel hua tha? Sachhi sachhi batana"
"jhappi nahi di thi shani....kitni to pappiyan taad rahi thi...Gautam pe to toot hi padi thi.... muh tod deta main koi aur hota to....lekin mujhe pata that u are a fan...wo ek innocent and excited gesture hai...fan moment...lekin satak gayi thi dimag ki"
"awwwwww....babyyyyyy...itna farak pada tha tujhe...to bola kyu nahi....ohhhh...camera shy...mela gulluuukullukullukullu... to ab tu trust karta hai mujhpe"
"khud se jyada moti...idhar aa" he takes her in his arms.... "tujhe pata hai mera trust ka understanding kya hai...jaise suppose hum jis field me hain na usme specially ek dusre pe trust hona bohot zaroori hai....bhot baat karenge log....media bakwas karega...bina baat ki khabar chapenge...co-starts ya kisi se bhi naam jodenge...news ko validate bhi nahi karte log gossip banana ke chakkar me...ho sakta hai jab kaam start ho jaye...hum itna time bhi spend nahi kar payenge....ho sakta hai hamare kaam ke chalte humko alag alag cities ya countries me bhi shoot karne jana pade...outdoor location ho...to aise me mujhe tujhpe kitna trust hai pata hai...ki agar tu kisi room me kisi unit wale bande ke sath ek bed pe.... Tere wala positively matlab so bhi jaye..... matlab...hui kabhi aisi situation...kisi karan share karna pada room...ya koi tera bhot achha male friend bhi ho...to main tujhe galat nahi samjhunga....aur shak to kabhi nahi karunga...bus mujhe pata hona chaiye kis ke sath hai tu...teri safety ke liye..mujhe pata hai tu loyal hai.....tujhe kabhi explanation apni safai me nahi deni padegi"
"ho sakta hai main tujhse sawal karu lekin wo isliye nahi honge ki mujhe terepe trust nahi hai...wo teri safety ke liye honge....tujhpe bharosa hai....samne wale pe naa ho...lekin ye to pata hai ki loyal hai tu....mujhse jhoot nahi bolegi....aisa trust hai mujhe tujhpe....insecure aur possessive to main life time rahunga.... kyuki pyaar hai tujhse...tu bata tujhe hai mujhpe aisa trust"
She laughs "haan trust to hai...mujhe bhi pata hai ki tu dhoka to nahi dega....lekin main bardash nahi kar paungi...tere room me aisi koi ladki soye...agar main na hoon to...coz main hoon tere liye waise bho jada possessive....shak nai karungi...but mujhe achha nahi lagega...aur aisa kabhi mauka bhi pade to tu please vanity van me jaa car me so jana na babyyyyy...main bhi nahi karungi share room kissi ke sath kabhi koi kitni bhi problem aa jaye to bhi"
Sid laughs at her honest confession... secretly he knew they both are similar but they both trust each other with their lives
"dekha kitna easy hai baat karna...jab hum baat karte hain naa..to already relationship workout karna easy ho jata hai....hum apni feelings...achhi ya buri bol ke bata dete hain... tu waise bata deti thi bigg boss me...mujhe achha nahi laga...mujhe attention de...usse bat mat kar...ab aur maturely handle larna hoga naa kyuki ab bigg boss nahi hai...hum dono hain aur sath hain aur zindagi bhar saath rehna hai...hai naa aur main tujhe ek baat bata doon, maine apni kisi bhi past relationship me kabhi dhoka nahi diya kisi ko bhi....honesty is my biggest plus point...aisa mujhe lagta hai...mujhe gussa aa sakta hai...main bakwas bol sakta hoon...kuch bhi bakwas kar sakta hoon.. lekin two timing...dhoka...cheating kabhi nahi karunga....jo girl friends thi unke sath nahi kiya to tere sath to marne ke baad bhi dhoka nahi karunga...ye baat samajh le"
Hearing this sana suddenly covers his mouth with her hand "please mat bol aisa....life start hi just hui hai tu marne ki baat mat kar.... please yaar.." and a tear rolls down her eyes.. out of sudden burst of emotions.
"haan baba..just ek baat bol raha hoon.... Example ke liye...tujhe ye samjha raha hoon...ki koi bhi kuch bhi bole mere bare me....tu kahi kabhi kuch padhe....koi pic bhi dekhe meri kisi ke sath to please pehle mujhse baat karna...conclusion pe mat aa jana...ki main hurt hoon, this and that....communication is very important...main kabhi tujhse na kuch chupaunga....na tujhse kabhi jhoot bolunga koi....chahe meri galti ho ya naa ho....samjhi moti"
"hmm...samajh gayi....jaise maine aaj ye fati hui pic dekh ke tujhpe bina puche aise sawal kiye...shak kiya naa aise main kabhi nahi karungi...kabhi jo bhi lagega to tujse directly baat karungi...ab tujhe to pata hai mera sab kuch lagne pe hi chalta hai...nahi to syappe hi naa ho meri life me...lekin main aage se nahi karungi...lagega bhi to tujhse baat karungi thande dimag se...bina kuch faltu baat soche"
"dekh hum na human hain....jealosy...possessiveness..insecurity sabko hoti hai...aur sach kahu shehnaaz..hona bhi chaiye...thodi...kyuki aap apne partner ki care karte ho....farak padta hai apko....pyaar me insecurity is ok...possessiveness is perfectly alright...it brings a certain charm in the relationship...it keeps the romance... the fire...the love alive....lekin balance rakh ke...striking a balance is very important"
"tujhe pata hai main bhot romantic hoon.... bhot passionate hoon....bhot ambitious hoon.... main chahta hoon hum dono mil ke apne apne dreams poore kare....life khul ke jiye...mujhe na kisi bhi cheese ke liye bhot mehnat karni padti hai....asani se nahi milti....waise hi tujhe pane ke liye maine bhot mehenat ki....kyuki tu utni important thi....tujhse milne se pehle naa sana maine kabhi pyaar ko importance nahi diya utna...lekin tujhe milne ke baad pata chala ki pyaar kya hota hai....sacrifice kise kehte hain...care kya hoti hai...tab mujhe samajh gaya tha ki ye hai pyaar...mujhe ho gaya hai tujhse..solid wala....jaisa mujhe chaiye the bilkul waise wala pyaar"
"Aur main tujhse promise kata hoon....ki life long main aisa hi rahunga....meri feeling aisi hi rahegi tere liye...main tujhe kabhi kisi bhi tareeke se hurt nahi karunga...tere decisions ko support karunga...I will be the wind beneath your wings...I will let you fly freely in the open sky... bus main na PDA me believe nahi karta...isliye mera show karne ka tareeka thoda alag hai...tujhe lagta hoga bigg boss me ki ye to bolta hi nai hai...iske mun ka kuch samajh nahi padta...show bhi nahi karta...ajeeb banda hai"
Sana laughs...giggling...kisses his hand "haan...mujhe bhot gussa chadta tha...jhappi karna hai...ate jaate pappiyan leni hai...matlab aise chipak ke sona bhi hai....gussa bhi hona hai.. kisi se baat kar lu to muh sadana hai...attitude do...mana mana ke mar jati thi main...raat me sote time khud ko chipak ke sona hota tha to jhat se maan jata tha....chant kahi kaa but actual me kya hai bolna nahi hai...feeling hi nahi batani...khadoos kahi ka..bho tang kiya hai tune mujhe sachhi....bilkul same to same aisa hi sochti thi main....lekin tujhe kaise pata"
"kyuki main tere hone wale bachho ka baap hoon baby....teri nas nas pata hai mujhe...tere dimag me jo sab chalta tha naa....mujhe samajhta tha..lekin duniya ke samne bina ye sab clear kiye...bina khud ki feelings ko khud se clear kiye mujhe faltu show off nahi karna tha...jo cheese tere mere beech hai....wo sirf apni hai...main apni privacy ke liye bhi waise hi protective and possessive hoon jaise main tere liye hoon"
"to samjha tujhe moti ye 4 apni relationship ke pillars hain...jo life long intact rahenge.....kuch bhi kam jyada hoga to hum dono mil ke work karenge us problem pe...baat karenge maturely...trust karenge.... I will always always be loyal to you and to your love..over and above my life aur jab ye teen cheese rahengi na to respect apne aap bana rahega"
"I believe in commanding respect.... Don't demand it...aur isse apni apas ki understanding hamesha strong rahegi...koi apne ko tod nahi payega...differences nahi dal payega...samjhi BIWI"
"jee pati ji...samajh lag gaya sara kuch...n same to you promise for all the four important things that you have explained to me today...I will always remind it inn mai brain...and I will always never cheat on you...I will never flipp on other boys...ja any more handsome...likke.. gautam gulatti or kartik aryan aur any other...I will love you....you are my lover...and call me later...wutever"
They both laugh a loud.... "tujhe na college ka teacher hona chaiye...ya relationship guru...love guru jaise..... tera naam hai aaj se baba 108 sidharth Shukla" and she bunches his hair into a fountain-pony.... Laughs uncontrollably and says "butt u are looking like a shuklee...my cute cute baby"
Sid jerks her hand...smiling widely... and pins her down on the bed...holding her both hands...comes closer "to meri guru dakshina kaha hai baby..ab itna gyaan bata to dakshina bhi milni chaiye na"
The husk in his voice....his warm breath on her neck...his touch weakens her...hopelessly mad in love....they kiss...when she suddenly breaks the kiss ....sides him looking little agitated
"sidhart side hat...please"
"kya hua baby?? You alright?"
"hmm...bus aise hi...sorry but please ye sab mat kar"
Her sudden flip makes sidharth uncomfortable... and cluless as to why this rude behaviour while she was alright a day before...has sidharth said any such thing that hurt her? Or what is she worrying about..stay tuned as sid finds out the reason and yet again helps her overcome her thoughts....and gives her a reality check....shukla style gyaan
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