No matter who you are there will always be a label written on your life.

Even though you try to tell yourself you are just as good as everyone else, there will always be a lingering thought that you are just as bad as everyone says you are.

Why we humans label each other is yet to be determined, but what I do know is that you can change what is thought about you. No matter who you are or who you have made yourself to look like, you can change within the blink of an eye.
Every little detail is picked up by each and every individual, regardless of their relationship to you or their state of mind.
Making or breaking yourself is something that is seldom talked about.  You can make yourself in an instant. You see that man on the sidewalk in a puddle begging to have some change that you may have lingering amongst the lint in your pocket. You could search in your pocket for change and have him think the world of you. This is ultimately "making" you. There is also the option to not make eye contact and avoid the situation altogether which could either break you or make no difference to your life at all.