I had nothing to talk about or get done today, but I am someone who perceives the elements of the actual world, which allows us to learn, grow, and experience delightfully.

I noticed a child strolling alone, without holding her mother's hand, with her father carrying groceries; maybe I'm not sure. while her mother is carrying her younger brother

It appears to be a beautiful family, but the little girl has made a sacrifice that nobody is aware of.
 
She never demanded her parents' attention.
 
She sensed their dire circumstances and left them for her younger brother, who might later treat her like trash.
 
This may appear sadistic, yet it is the reality for some people.
 

Well, all I saw in her smile was, that she had embraced adulthood at an early age.

 
All I recorded from my experiences is that she is losing her childhood.

 
All I could assume was that she would grow into a strong, protective, and lovely sister, friend, daughter, girl, and human being.

And I remembered...

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When childhood ends in a rush, adulthood is the only companion a little one has, and the trauma it causes lingers up until death. Yet once childhood collapses swiftly, it holds what's left of childhood inside oneself alive until death strikes both of them at once.

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Every elder sibling feels this at some point of time.

Some are left abandoned.

Some still get care and love.

Some stop expecting.

Some fulfill their duties but don't expect anything from their parents.

Sometimes this ignorance continues until parents realize how selfish their younger ones are.

Sometimes they understand everything yet don't care; they know the older one would care no matter what.

It hurts, but they are a happy family without the elder daughter/son.

The elder one is not needed.

They do love her/him; she/he believes and knows they do, but they just don't know how to express it.

It was not their fault; she/he left everything on her/his own; she/he gave up on everything herself/himself.

 
Sometimes it's the younger one who is ignored, and sometimes the middle one.

😀 I wasn't in a very positive mood.
Sorry...
Do you love your siblings?
Have you been close or distinct from your parents?
Do you feel the same?
Do you have a habit of observing things like me?
Do you love nature, does it give you peace?
How strong do you think she would be?

Another thing: if you and your parents ever differ, make sure to talk it out.

If necessary, seek the assistance of a psychiatrist, but don't let a dumb misunderstanding or some ignorant people destroy your relationship with your parents.

 If you ever think that giving up on their love is a better option, think again.

It is best to fight for them.

Love you all.
Bye-bye.

I just noticed I have written thrauma instead of trauma in my copy.😂😂😂