at 13 she joined the companions ,where she met aela the daughter of Taj'ita by adoptive means .after being allowed to join the companions she was happy and kissed aela thinking of what the khajiit in the caravan did when they were happy or in love which then caused a ackward  gap in between her and aela.at around 15 she learned to control her werewolf and helped others that had trouble .at around 19 she started to walk around outside the walls of white run as it got darker .