In a world where we have people full of themselves, we also have the ones who don't bother with themselves.
The latter types of people can't help but have insecurities in their life.

I'm fat!
I'm ugly!
I'm an idiot!

Welp!  These humans are usually the ones who are not. Unlike me,  who is all of the above and is proud of it, it is often girls who think that.
Not boys.

Because they normally are quite confident hence the catcalling.

But why do we do this? Too afraid? Too weak?
Nope.

It's because we think we're not good enough for anything. There are people always trying to look good and acceptable for the society. And it's always us girls who do that.
Is it revealing or not?
Is it not pretty?
Etcetera.

But that is another topic.

Accepting yourself how you are is the first step to loving yourself. Your beauty is known only to those who know you as a person. People fall in love after they get to know you.

Stuff like first sight love blows away with the wind when the person turns out to be mean, selfish and an ungrateful cow.
You are good just the way you are.

If you really are ugly then don't cry about it. When bystanders snigger at you because of your looks just flip your hair and smile. You don't deserve their judgements.

At least you are not as lowly a character as them. When you become confident about yourself, you automatically give off the 'screw yourself ' vibes.

Trust me when I say you look good. If you weigh over 100 kgs or over 70 kgs,  it doesn't mean you are ugly. You are gorgeous. People are all gorgeous and let no one tell you otherwise.

This society works on the inconvenience of humanity. You need to know that this life you are living is for yourself and no one else.

Yes, I wouldn't encourage you to be fat. A daily exercise doesn't hurt because being fat and too healthy is just bad for your body. Especially your knees. Losing even 5 kgs a year is enough.

Love yourself.
It's too easy to say.
But even harder to do.

I tried. And the maximum I can do is 'Like' myself cause I've caused enough troubles to last a lifetime.

There is this entire process of letting all your insecurities go. I was too lazy to go through it so I decided to block myself from everything.
I know it's difficult to hear compliments about yourself from someone else. You should not stop yourself from accepting that. Smile and just say thanks.
It'll make you feel better.
You are wanted.
You are loved.
You do not who does actually adore, admire and love you.

Don't let yourself get drowned from the burdens of judgements on your shoulders. They are your shoulders.

Simply shrug them off.

With that said I think I've spoken
enough.
Hope you think wonderfully and respect your own self.

Adios!!!
Topic suggested by poetparlanuit Thank you!!!

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Sorry I was late but I remembered finally!
Please do suggest topics I am running out of them...