This is practically based on a personal experience (even though I don't care enough anymore).

I am tired. I am TIRED.

Of people always trying to feel better by insulting or judging people on how big their stomach, thighs and ass is. It is theirs for God's sake!

My huge stomach is mine and shall be mine to look after. You aren't the one paying for the food so pipe down sonny!

We all know how they tell us to not pay attention to things we don't like but as a human it gets downright hard to not get hurt by that. It is difficult to let that go.

When I was 10, I was reprimanded by my smart ass cousins for wearing shorts because I had 'thunder thighs'! I was 10 but strangely that memory has stuck with me always. I was small at the time and  I was sad because of those idiots who were four to eight years elder to me.

Now if you ask, I could hardly care cause me is me. Don't look at us if you have a problem. God gave you the choice of looking. There was nothing as such is the Ten Commandments that said 'Thou shall be cast to Hell if thou didst not look at the person right in front of you'.

If my cousin ( yes the douche' who is a huge - ass mountain now after six years) tells me anything based on my body I'd literally do the most un-girlish thing possible.

I'd fart on his face. And then tell him 'Deal with your own problems first'. (I would love to flip my hair but I'd just end up embarrassing myself)

Then I'd run because he's really bulky and my life  is precious.

Please, you are just so much more than a Swarovski diamond so don't underestimate your beauty. We are fat because we are awesome.

However what strikes me as funny is how we insult those who are too thin too! Like a pole or like a stick.

I mean the society wants us to be perfect from the head to the tippy toes. They want us to be like a walking Beyonce' all the time! They expect every girl to be purr-fect.

Yes, I won't leave out the boys too. We do judge boys based on how friggin' toned they are but we fail to understand that we don't exactly look like Snow White. Nevertheless I still think that while some boys do have it difficult with all the bullying, it is girls who are never overlooked because of how their body is.

I'm also not saying that we are honest. Talking with friends and not being harsh or insulting is okay but not doing so isn't. Yes, we might not have directly judged or insulted or body- shamed anyone  but we have all been there where we pointed out the flaws. I'm not going to pretend like a queen when I'm not. I've done it too.

My point is that no one and I mean NO  ONE is perfect. We, you or anyone doesn't have to  be obliged to hear and pay attention to what others say. 

Either you ignore them as if their existence means nothing to you or you fart on their faces and run.

We deserve to be loved for who we are.

Personally, I would not want to have a connection with someone (even the Pope) who only talks, likes or gets attracted to me by how I look (which is equivalent to the Cow and cow is a holy animal where I live) but instead I'd appreciate the ones who really know me!

I hope you all know your true worth and just keep your loved ones close to you! Having less friends doesn't mean there's something wrong with you but it means that you choose your people wisely  and are careful. It means that a couple of special people means more to you than a large mob of back-stabbbers.

I'm done preaching sorry.

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Today's topic was suggested by @_shere03 and I'm glad you did! 

Plus, I'm really sorry for the delay and for not updating faster. There was so much confusion in my head if I should continue this or just unpublish this because I thought it was stupid. But then I thought that if it is helpful to even one person I'm happy to continue writing it. (Also because I really enjoy writing on these topics > <)

See you next Sunday and I  love you!! 

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