Right so, I don't usually violently rant. Although, as most of you who know me do know, if I see things wrong I speak my mind.

I'm old enough that I don't hold things in, I've learned that if I see things I believe are wrong I let people know it. I give my views and that is usually the end of it. I try not to let it escalate into a full-blown war of the worlds as I have in the past. (Trust me it's gotten bad because I don't keep my trap shut when I see things that are wrong) If I see people, especially my friends, being wronged, I will speak up and give my views on the situation.

What irks me the most though is when people gang up on someone and start beating them down when the person wasn't wrong in the first place and these people then make that person feel as if they did something wrong or bad. Then the person feels guilty or the need to apologize for something that wasn't even their fault in the first place! The unfairness of it makes me extremely angry, especially when the person who was wrong in the first place gets all of their friends together and rallies them to begin ganging up on the person who was in the right, as well as those defending the person who was in the wrong. 

Even worse, is when they then make the person who started everything by doing something bad seem like this holier than anything little angel, then you go to their profile and find posts filled with hate on their message board calling people names or swearing at people. Even better a rant book picking on people, things, and the world in general. Yet everyone is defending this person and ganging up on the other person and making them feel horrible.

Part of what bothers me, as well, is these people are perceived as being the "popular" or "well known" users on some sites so people automatically believe them over anyone else. And if you point out the fact that they are popular and therefore that's the only reason everyone is picking their side over the other person's, you are then accused of only accusing them of being wrong because you are jealous of them because they are "popular" and all of a sudden you are being bashed and picked on. You can't win against them. I've seen it happen countless times and been involved in situations like that. So even if you are trying to defend someone you KNOW has been wronged you lose before you've even begun. 

Why doesn't anyone see the person for who they are? It makes me wonder what this world is coming to when we take things at face value instead of doing a deeper investigation before simply taking someone's word for something. If you're going to accuse someone of being something or doing something to you, check yourself first. 

I'm not perfect and I never claim to be. I've made mistakes in my life and I'll continue to make them. Anyone who says they're perfect is lying to you, run away as quickly as you can. I try and learn from my mistakes and move forward. That is the best way I can live my life. Hopefully, others will do the same. Find those folks and keep them in your life. :)