I'm AroAce, (wow, great, so proud of you, or whatever), I've known this for a few years and I love it, but what exactly does that mean for me, what things aren't okay for me to say, am I technically gay (like in the way bisexuals use it), if people ask about my sexuality I usually say i'm gay or in the gay community cause I can't be bothered to pull out the whole "coming out" slide show, but what jokes and stuff do gay people that would be considered too far for me, I'm always scared to make a gay joke because while i'm cool with it and think it's funny and okay I can never tell if others will think it's wrong or something, Do people ever get discredited because their "not technically gay" am I even allowed to say I'm gay? I don't know and frankly I'm too scared to ask, so I don't, I just don't, I don't want to say rude things about others but what thing can I say about myself? what is my sexuality allowed to do? everything because were gods? nothing because were (maybe) not technically gay (or straight , or anything for that matter)? I love being who I am and I'm not confused about who I am, but I am confused what I'm allowed to be? does queer work for me? am I confused about me? I just don't know, and I guess that's okay with me. 

welp that probably made less sense than it should,

stay safe y'all