Let's Chat!
Hi guys! How are y'all beauties doing?
I hope you are all well!
So I want to like chat with you all because I love chatting with y'all. ❤
So here we go. Funny chat first.
Who watched Pentatonix on the CMA's today? Weren't they beautiful? Totally slayed the scene. We received a lot of compliments from country lovers and artists. ❤
They also received an standing ovation from the whole CMA audience. Something the performers didn't receive.. Wow.
Now I want a full on country album from them. :)
Now let's have a serious talk.
How many of you have feel somehow left out this last couple of days?
How many of you feel betrayed by your friend?
How many of you have felt jealousy because of another friend?
How many of you sometimes feel greedy over a friend and sometimes want them to yourself and when they have other friends it hurts you?
How many of you ever hated another friend or person for hating on your best friend?
Have you ever done that to a friend? Ignore them just be a cause?
Have you ever gotten angry at a friend for a stupid reason?
Have you ever wished that your friends all liked the same things as you?
Have you ever ignored a friend on purpose?
Has any of your best friends hurt your feelings? Did you tell them they did?
Have you ever left a group chat just because you got mad at one friend in the chat and decide to take it out on the rest?
Have you ever blamed your friends for something bad (ex: bad grades, family problems.. Etc.) ?
Do you sometimes wish you weren't best friends with them but instantly regret it?
Have you ever wanted to guilt trip your friend by playing the victim?
Have you ever ignored a friend on purpose, knowing how much they could be hurt?
Have you ever used another friend to make your best friend jealous?
Do you ever just find friends for promotion?
Be honest. Answer the questions above, I promise I won't think different of you. Because I have done some of the things above and I realized that it does hurt.
I want y'all to think about all the questions you just answered above.
Do you ignore a whole group chat when one person made you mad?
Do you get mad/sad because a friend doesn't like the same things as you?
Please think this through and realize how much it hurts to the other person. Yeah they're will be times where your friends deserve it because they said something that they know you don't like. But ignoring them is never the answer.
Don't talk shit about them behind their backs. In social media, don't post about how bad of friends they are with them anonymously.
If you have something to say to them, talk to them. Tell them how you feel and if they are your real friends, they'll try to think of a solution out of it. Because true friends never want to let go of you.
Especially best friends. Don't call them best friends if you are going to talk bad about them because of a little mistake they made. Don't call them best friends if they ignore you for no exact reason at all. Don't call them best friend if they don't give you time to explain things if you did something. Don't call them best friend if you leave group chats and when friends start asking 'what happened? Why did you leave?' You answer back with 'Oh its because she/he did this.."
Its like uncool.
No friend deserves to get talked bad about. They deserve for you to tell them exactly what's wrong and then if they truly do love you as a best friend. They'll try their best friend to change, to find a solution for you.
So right now. If you have a friend you are having problems with, go talk to them. Kindly please. Don't go all bitch sassy on them please. Go all Mitch Grassi instead.
Find a solution together.
Cause I can promise you the trash talking, the guilt tripping, the anonymous pointing at in social media will me 100% useless.
All it will end up solving is..
Losing that person.
If you want to lose them because you are sick and tired of them.. Let them go easily. Don't be a total rude hat.
But if you love them as your best friend talk to them because if they equally love you as much, they will forgive you and find a solution.
If you need help talking to them or telling them how you feel. Or if you need someone to lean on and talk to when you need help. I'm always here.
Am not only good at delivering compliments y'all ;) ❤
Love you all beauties!!
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