and that's what makes you beautifulllll

okay kidding this actually a chapter abt what i find beautiful! and since most of these are apparently starting with a little acknowledgement abt how they're not meant to be insulting or whatever, here's this one:

everyone is beautiful in someone's eyes. you are beautiful. it's a fact of life, don't deny it. 

now, into the chapter!

a list of things i find beautiful/attractive:

-well taken care of hair, skin, or body (human instincts make you more drawn to health--it's why sometimes skinnier and more athletic bodies are seen as prettier)

-a truly kind personality, doesn't let anyone feel left out, is a girl's girl (or kind guy ig idk), gets it

-personally, i really like freckles

-tall is cute but only bc my ex was shorter than me and that was pretty spooky

-a summer sort of look--blushed cheeks, tan skin, fluffy hair, bright colors, that sort of vibe is just so happy and cheerful

-confidence (pretty much a shared idea throughout the entire world)

-green or blue eyes (i have brown eyes and i think i'm pretty but colored eyes are just ahhh)

-being able to talk to people, or at least putting some effort in--i completely get being introverted, but if you really want to befriend someone, you've gotta make an effort. if they turn you down, then they turn you down. 

-happiness in general, and a willingness to talk! i don't think if you're in a dark place you don't deserve love, but i also don't think that dating someone will bring you out of that dark place--usually, it'll only drag them into it with you

-not required obvi but sacrifical/selfless--willing to give up the small things (my last candy? oh of course, you can have it. you don't have money? i'll pay for your drink, don't worry) that don't seem like they matter but js melttt my heart <3

-personally, i find that i notice a lot of little details abt other people, even if it's just random people's names, and so it's the greenest flag ever to me if someone notices and remembers things abt me. like if you know my birthday, my favorite color, and you remember that conversation we had a month ago? marry me, please

things i find ugly/red flags:

-disgusting personality (mean, not caring for others feelings, selfish--overly, a little bit's okay)

-not taking care of yourself (not brushing teeth, showering, etc. greasy hair also falls into this category--although i do know that some people can't stop it)

-fuckboys.

-to elaborate on above: guys who talk to a million girls or don't like girls who aren't perfectly pretty and put-together. also, guys who only go for older girls bc they know that they can pull them (narcissistic) 

-girls who are popular but aren't pretty (specifically, those who act like they're better than everyone else bc they're popular)

-chewing with your mouth open. not to say you're disgusting and terrible and all that if you do--it just gets on my nerves sometimes, particularly when you've got a full mouth of food and are just chatting it up with someone right next to you. like honestly, is it that hard to cover your mouth with you hand? or even just close it? unless you're sick and can't breathe through your nose, of course, i get that. 

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