Hey all guy's, gals, and non-binary gremlins/pals. So I was talking with a friend and she was talking about how she was scared to define her sexuality because she isn't too sure and wants to explore more, but also how she is scared to say something and then change it later. Then later I saw someone online talking about something similar so I have a small message for you all who are questioning, changing how you identify, don't know your identity, or anything like that.

YOU ARE VALID! You don't need to label yourself/choose an identity if you don't feel comfortable. You are also always able to change your identity if you find something fits better/things have changed. Gender and sexuality are fluid and can change. You can also discover new things about yourself. Like someone who is asexual might find they are actually grey or demi sexual for an example. You also don't need to label yourself. Identifying as questioning or queer or non-labled is always ok and always valid. We as a community should be including everyone and supportive of everyone no matter what. 

If you don't know exactly you fit into the community that is 100% ok. You are always valid and I am always able to talk if that would help in any way. Just be yourself and remember you are always valid and amazing and special and there is no one like you. Now

Raise a glass with me