I actually sent this to my friend:
I know I read your update and if he really loves you he'll stay and if he leaves you well guess what he just lost the best thing that ever happened to him and he didn't love you so girl stop worrying bout it you'll find a guy or girl that will stick around because they really love you And girl if he breaks your heart you just need to get back up on your feet and just know that your long line of ex boyfriends that broke your heart they only mad you stronger So girl dry your eyes because I'm here your you forever and always So be happy because you are a strong independent beautiful woman who doesn't need no man to be happy you just need your best friends and a good time to be happy and Girl I'm not saying this to please you I'm saying it because it's true look love is love no matter what the distance is because just like Nate and I found love you will too I promise an I know it seems impossible now but it will happen. So Don't be Cinderella be Merida the one girl who doesn't need a man to save her because she is a strong independent beautiful woman and can take care of herself. So girl be Mulan and save the day.