Hey guys your crazy writer is again back with another crazy stuff to talk about. Let’s begin with a simple question today.
How many of you have fallen in love?
I know most of you have. I also know that when I just said about all these stuff most of you must have started recollecting your memories of your love story. Some painful stories, some romantic stories, some......Incomplete ones etc, etc. OK so for an Indian girl falling in love is a crime. If a girl loves a guy truly she is ought to suffer. What.....its true guys.........Looks like most of you don’t believe me so let me explain using a short story.
Once upon a time there lived a girl named Ananya. Ananya was a crazy girl she get angry a little fast she gets happy even faster. No matter how she looked she had a heart of gold. She never fights with anyone she gets annoyed sometimes but she never hurts anyone. ‘Live and let live’ was her policy in life. But she had a crazy dream. Ananya always dream of travelling around the whole world just like Ranbir Kapoor from ‘Yeh Jawaani Hai Deewani’  She also wished to see the whole world, seeing each look and corner of this world was her biggest dream. This was not an ordinary dream but it was her deep desire. It was her first love. But everything changed when she found her second love- Ayan.
Ayan was a hot short guy of her collage and the crush of most of the girls. Ananya was not that kind of girl who used to fall in love that easily but......we can call it her destiny or her bad luck that she fell for him very easily but he didn’t fell for her that easily. Ayan had a lot of options to choose from. Ananya was just another girl for him. But Ananya fell for him more and more as days passed by. One day Ananya did a terrible mistake she discussed about the feelings she had for Ayan with one of her friends. She believed that her friend will keep her secret. But she turned out to be a traitor she told Ayan everything. Next day when Ananya was passing through the corridors she overheard Ayan talking to his friends about the characterless girl who is trying to trap him in her love- Ananya. This broke her heart she never wanted that to happen. She never tried to trap him she loved him truly and deeply. She quietly walked away from there.
After some time Ayan fell in love with one other girl. He never cared about Ananya he always insulted her he spread the news how she was a flirt and characterless girl. But after some years, when his girlfriend dumped him was the time when Ayan realized how much pain he have given to Ananya. Ayan decided to set things right he went and apologized to Ananya and asked her to love him like she used to. Like every other girl Anaya’s heart melted just by hearing his apology she forgive him and yes she never stopped loving him so she didn’t had to technically start loving him again. Ayan asked Ananya to be his girlfriend and without giving it a second thought Ananya said yes. She forgot everything which he did to her in the past.
The first one year of their relationship was like a fairytale for Ananya both of them loved each other a lot their love was amazing Ayan was an ideal and faithful boyfriend he was always with her during her ups and downs highs and lows. Even Ananya love him more than anything in this world.
But her happiness didn’t last long soon Ayan started interfering too much in her personal matters. Who are her friends, who she talks to, where she goes, what is happening in her life he wanted records of everything, each passing second in her life. At start Ananya had no problems but soon he started behaving in more crazy way he got to decide what she should wear what she should talk or do. She had to take permission from him for everything she does. He asked her to stay away from most of her friends because he didn’t like her being with them. Soon he became this possessive jerk and started turning her life into hell. Gradually Ananya forgot the last time she talked to another guy, visited her friends also the last time she wore anything she likes. He started treating her like complete shit. He got angry at her for everything the fights were common Ananya never interfered in his life but Ananya’s life was not hers anymore it was his.
After some years both of them married each other even though they had problems they got married because Ananya suffered everything quietly without complaining. She thought that Ayan was feeling insecure and that’s the reason for his attitude and after marriage everything will be all right. But after marriage the situation got only worst his possessiveness increased she never found time for herself but Ananya never used to complain because of the love she had for him. But, he expected her to prove her love for him every single day, but it was not enough for him. In between all these her first love vanished. Forget travelling, she hardly got a chance to step out of her house. One day she took a decision it was enough sufferings she decided to free herself from these miseries. That night when Ayan returned home he saw Ananya lying motionless on the bed she had a deep cut on her wrist. Ananya’s death was a huge shock for Ayan after her death he realized how much he used to love her he found her dairy and when he read it he realized what she had gone through all these years. He felt ashamed of himself.
It’s strange the way some guys thinks girls are their personal property after they become his girlfriend or wife, a girl leaves everything she had since the day she was born behind including her surname after marriage but the guy don’t even have the curtsey to ask her what her dreams are? Every guy have so many dreams about his life partner and lover and when they are finally in love they try to turn it into true but in between they also forget that even that girl have some dreams.
Why is it still a norm in the society that if a girl fall in love with you first she is a slut and if she don’t love you after you fallen in love with her she is showing attitude. Even though we call ‘I love you’ as the three magical words sometimes ‘I trust you’ can be more beautiful. So dear boys don’t just love a girl trust her trust her dreams. Don’t punish her just because she loves you.