Being an Indian girl is not a piece of cake. To become an Indian girl we have follow certain rules and regulations. The following are some basic rules:
Rule NO.1: Think less
Rule NO.2: Talk less
Rule NO.3: Never ask questions
Rule NO.4: Suffer and tolerate everything
Rule NO.5: Obey each and everyone
These are some basic rules of being a perfect Indian girl. Now some of you might be saying that these rules are false and I am just making things up so I will explain this. Women or girls are always asked to be naive they are thought that they are always less than Men, girls are always forced into being conscious of their looks. But why should we do all this? Why should we consider ourselves less than someone else? And why should we bother about our looks so much. Oh, I am that kind of a girl who hates this thing the most. I have gone through a lot since my childhood which is still continuing. I am not kidding guys I am literally sitting with a hair pack on as I am writing this article. From childhood on I have heard the story that I had this dark skin tone when I was born and how much hard work my family members did so that I became fair. Why, why dose we girls have to look so good and attractive from outside. Is our inner beauty not enough? We girls never think about all that right. All this facts explains the fact that we girls not girls Indian girls are forced to think less. Sometimes we don’t realise it but we have been following all these rubbish all these years without thinking that why should we do all this. All my life I have seen my mom depending on my dad even for small things. She never thinks that why can’t she do all that herself.
Generally we Indian girls are considered really talkative. It is said that even if two women keep on talking to each other continuously for years also they won’t be satisfied. But do we girls talk about something important which can help in our development or betterment. NO a big fat NO. It is sad but it is true that we women don’t want to talk about changes. If girls talk about topic’s like feminism, sex, or if a women pass comments about guys. She is considered characterless. If a Indian girl tells her in law’s or her husband that she is not comfortable with something she become a family breaker, if a girls tells something like that to her parents she is misbehaving. So right to talk is also rejected to women so they always talk about rubbish stuff mostly because they are not allowed to talk something else.
If you are an Indian girl ask to yourself when was the last time you asked questions like, why can’t I go out at night, why can’t I date more than one guy, why should I always adjust. Well I used to ask such questions and always get one replay- ‘You are mad’ a good Indian girl is the girl who follow all the rules and regulations made for her without asking any questions. If a girl asks questions like these she is considered mad. Once I heard my friend say that she cannot do a job which pays her more salary than her husband. I am 100% sure that she never have asked anyone that why can’t she do a job which will pay her more than her husband. Why? Because it’s a rule that women is less than man and she should never earn more and no women dare to ask questions against it. I personally come from a family where my mom earns more than my dad and my dad never feels bad about it. But my mom feels it’s not right. Maybe that is why some people say that a woman is a women’s biggest enemy. How can women get equality if she doesn’t even understand the meaning of being equal?
“Suffer it” “Tolerate that” These are two things which are mostly said to girl from her childhood onwards a girl is taught to tolerate and suffer. If you are a victim of eve teasing people will say “Avoid it” Why the hell should we avoid it because what they is doing is completely wrong. We should first punish the person who gives us these stupid advices because the same people will say the same if we get raped. We should not tolerate even small things. There are also people in India who says to tolerate rape. In the case of marital rape always the victim is advised to keep quiet and suffer. Even in the cases which are not marital rape too girls are asked to keep quite as it will ruin her reputation. I fail to understand why people spoil a girl’s reputation. The person who raped her is the one whose reputation should be spoiled. So girls never tolerate or suffer just remember you are also human beings apart from men you only have to suffer the pain of delivery and menstruation and nothing else.
Obeying each and everyone in the society is one of the important responsibilities of an Indian girl. Who decides what a girl should wear, where a girl should go, who should a girl marry ECT, the society or the people around us dose. I remember that one day at my school there was a function and all the students were allowed to wear colour dresses and a few days before the function all the girls were called for a meeting and we were given certain instructions about our dressing. Like we should not wear leggings, we should not wear jeans, no short tops, no tight clothes. Who are they to decide what dress I should or should not wear it is my body and don’t I have this simple right to decide which cloth I should put on it. It is a basic right which is without any question given to every guy. So, why can’t a girl get the basic right of deciding what cloth she should put on her body? Why can’t we decide who we should we marry. Why should the society or other people get the right of deciding our life?
So these are some basic rules of being an Indian girl which actually makes being an Indian girl a tough thing. My question is- who made these rules? Most of the people’s answer is- the society. Society what is this society the people who are living around us. But around us there are also women’s why would a women ask another women to do something like this. It’s true we women are week because we consider our self week. So stop considering our self week and consider our self strong.