YO IF YOU'RE STRAIGHT AND YOU'RE WRITING GAY/LESBIAN FF, THAT'S FINE, BUT DON'T JUST GO OFF ASSUMPTIONS, STEREOTYPES, OR CLICHÉS PLS

read other fanfics of the ship by lgb authors, or talk to someone in the community abt it first

also, pls don't feed into the "man in the relationship" thing, especially when it comes to lesbians. same-sex couples don't think that way, and there's a 56% chance you'll get punched in the face by an annoyed girlfriend