It doesn't help to blame others for the mess that your life is in; if you are in pain people might console you but ultimately you have to endure the pain. Think "I have only myself " remember "you are the captain of your ship". You will be held responsible on every step you under take so, if you can not eradicate it altogether pray for less pain by being more responsible!
How can we take a grip of our life? Not by being aggressive, not by being submissive but by being Assertive
How to start being assertive? Stand up for yourself and confront people who challenge you and your rights. Always aim for open and honest communication and STAY CALM!

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