Assalamu alaikum

To start with let me tell about my cousin  . She is already a mother of a six year old , and I can still remember all the troubles she had to go through , I was not near  her during either of her delivery .

During her first delivery , her BP raised high and she had to be taken to a faraway hospital for better treatment and the baby was premature and had kidney trouble , it was so bad that the doctor there predicted he would not make it if he was transferred to another hospital ( the hospital he was born in was too expensive) any how Alhamdulillah, he is six now and doing well  even he was transferred ( he had an operation and the kidney trouble is now , alhamdulillah , over )

But the matter is not about him but my sister , she faced a lot of troubles during her first delivery so did she in the second but she still did not do tubectomy and thus willing to have more babies . her body started swelling about one or two months before delivery and both the deliveries were caesarian . For the first delivery it was even a mother or child choice and for the second she was in ICU because of her BP ( please take a moment and pray for her) These much of trouble and still the love!

It is not only my sister , all our mothers had to go through lot of troubles to have us , economic , physical or mental, but they still love us ,a selfless love :)

And that must be why Allah has given them a special status in islam, 

here are some hadith and quran verses applicable to mothers or both parents (It is father right after mother)

So here is a thing : since you read it , now , right at the moment go present your mother atleast a smile , may be a little help or a hug or what about a kiss on her forehead , if she is not near you just give her a call and speak softly , and if she has passed away , a moment of prayer , please.

I will not command anyone to be always soft to mother (because I had failed many times , astaghfirullah)  but I can command  to try  to be soft and each time we know we had exceeded a limit , say a sorry as soon as the anger energy is released from you  followed by doing something she likes , I believe she will be more than happy to forgive you and always and always try to be good to your mother. Smile to her and appreciate her , at least once in a while and include her in your prayers.

A healthy relation with your family will definitely increase positive energy in your life. Always be in  good terms with your family 

reminding me and then you,

May Allah bless us to better sons and daughters

Assalamu alaikum