"Don't focus too long on a person's flaws because you'll never see the good things. You'll wind up never knowing who they really are. Because you gave up on them."

What matters most to you?
Looks, Fame, Money, Compassion, Loyalty, Success, Family, Friends, Music, etc.

This is a question I always ask. It helps you see what motivates a person in their life.

What defines a person?
Is it....?

Actions
Words
Heart
Career
Looks
Popularity

There are so many things that make up one person. How they feel. Their maturity. What their passionate about. How far they will go for someone they love. Yet, what do we ask one another when meeting? Simple things that can't possibly describe the complexity of that sole person. Then we judge them on their answers.

Describe yourself in one word.
Paradoxical

It's easy to answer how to describe yourself. But, what defines you? Not as easy to answer. Because who we are isn't some petty fashion trend, or money in our wallets. The fact that we happened to make a mistake one day when we were overwhelmed with life. It happens. This shouldn't define us. There isn't a single fair way to define a person. So don't even bother. Get to truly know a person before you bother to judge them.