Phew! I'm sorry, just gotta get something off my chest: 

If you say you care about somebody, you don't go ranting about there personal problems on your board or to other people when they trust you, you support them and try to help them in every way possible. you comfort them regardless of there "I'm okay's" and even if they don't want it, you need to support them. you don't talk trash or hurt the person your trying to understand or decipher, you try to side with them regardless if your a "true friend". honestly, people are so evil and rude, I've seen it too many times on here, it's called the person needs someone to talk to, and not be so self-centered about yourself or being first for everything! real friends stick by your sides through anything, remember that.