ADDRESSING GENDER 

As just a quick tidbit, gender is spectrum as proven by science. Sex and gender are two different things, gender being what is in your brain and sex being what sexual organs you were born with.

Source

Unger, R. K. (1979). Toward a redefinition of sex and gender. American Psychologist, 34(11), 1085-1094.

Definitions

Gender- the behavioral, cultural, or psychological traits typically associated with one sex

Sex- either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as female or male especially on the basis of their reproductive organs and structures.