We are gems. Think about it! Diamond are kept in a dull looking box hidden away for safety. Just like that, we are kept at a dull looking home kept away from males for safety (no wrong intentions to fall on us). Diamonds are wrapped up to prevent damages. We are wrapped in our Hijab and abaiya to prevent damages - males to look at us wrongly. Don't feel ashamed of your feminine qualities. Don't feel prevented from doing things! It is for your own benefit. Thank Allah SWT for making you a women! Remember! Jannah (Heaven) is under a mothers feet.

Brothers! Lower your gaze! It is said in the Quran :

"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) Quran 24:30"

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ALL ABOUT MUSLIMAH *_* chapter 2 to understand more! Thank you sister for bringing up this topic to me!