I hate this phrase so much. Maybe you're not mentally innocent but most of you physically are. Masturbating doesn't count as not being physically innocent, it just means you're lonely.

Not being physically innocent means you aren't a virgin. Whether it had consent or not, that's the end of it.

There are some instances where I'd say someone who's a virgin could say they're not innocent. For example, if a pedophile online tries asking for nudes. That's fucking scary and that's really bad sexual harrassment! If that happens to anyone they have rights to saying they're not innocent. From personal experience, I know how scary it is.

Honestly, I didn't think it would be that scary cuz it just someone online, you can easily block them. You hear that all the time about internet safety and yet when it actually happens to you it feels like there's no escape. You feel trapped even when there is an exit, but you're so scared you don't see it. Either that or you're scared they might hack you or just come back on a different account. If they're careless enough to demand nudes or something then they probably have some creepy ways to get them, right?

People who just have a dirty mind, they don't have the rights to really say they're not innocent in my opinion. We all get old enough to know what sex is, most of us at least know what BDSM is. Actually, if that's all you knew about I'd like to say you are rather innocent.

The biggest people who get rights to saying they're not innocent in my opinion are rape victims. That's not only psychological but physical torture. To this day I'm still not truly okay about my rape and I've had six months of therapy specifically to work through it. I'm mostly okay but if I start talking about rape a lot or get into too much detail I crash for a few days where I'm constantly blaming myself for what happened and just not being mentally okay.

After I went through that experience and all my childhood innocence of a 7 year old was taken away from me against my will, people saying they're not innocent just for having a dirty mind {especially if they're laughing while they're saying it} pisses me off so much. To me it feels like they're making a joke out of my rape or mocking me or something.

This has bothered me for a while but I'm in a terrible mood today so I just needed to yell about something, even if I'm not exceptionally bothered by it at the moment.

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