I define beauty as I define imperfection.
Humans fall in love with the beautiful things and think of it as perfect. They're not.
Nothing is perfect.
What really happens is they observe, think and then they open their heart with the golden key to let out love which directly attacks the object. That object then decides if they're thinking the same and accept or reject.
If they come close to each other, they act with and without their mind. If they feel safe, they shut out their mind and let the heart take over.

We manipulate ourselves. The question is, is it a good or bad thing?