Okay so hence the decision is made.

I will not change the gender. I don't want to generate any types of hating against my Ishu.

I will still write the story but with a slightly different plot. Ab ya to ye kamal niklegi ya bekar.

Like I said I shall start writing after exam but maybe I can publish one chapter as a teaser but then you have to wait.

Thank you for your opinions specially 23Dont_Know32 for your kind explanation.