TW: This chapter talks about gender and is transphobic.

I hate talking about gender with my mom. I'm cis, but I have friends who identify different, mainly one of my best friends is genderfluid. A while back ago, when I started bringing my friends to my house, my mom and I would occasionally have talks about gender.
I hated those talks so much. I'm pretty sure I cried after having one.
They weren't super bad, but I hated how she talked about gender, I remember her saying a lot of kids were being trans as a trend, and that genderfluid people basically didn't exist. I hated it when she told me those things, I refused to talk about it with her a lot, I honestly hate her for how she views gender, because what if I came out as trans or Non-binary to her (very unlikely to happen, but idk) She says she doesn't care how I identify and would love me no matter what, but who knows really? She'd probably start saying some shit to me if I ever changed my pronouns.
I hate how she doesn't seem to understand shit like this. Kids aren't being trans as a trend, their trying to find their identity, or don't feel right as the gender they weren't born as, and some people don't want to identify as just one thing. God forbid not everyone wants to be cis, mom.
After the first talk with her, I didn't feel like bringing my friend over would be safe, because what if my mom started saying shit to them? My mom said she wouldn't, and hasn't (yet)
I'm hoping I don't ever talk to my mom about gender again, I hate what she says about it and never want to speak to her on it again