me: watches natsume yuujinchou, which slams the "YOUR FRIENDS LOVE YOU! TELL THEM ABOUT YOUR FEELINGS!!! UR NOT BOTHERING THEM!! DONT BOTTLE THINGS UP" almost every episode

me: writes arc 7 of nfh which is LITERALLY about how bottling your feelings is Bad. writes a passionate, heartfelt narrative urging ppl to talk about their problems

me: preaches abt how ppl should communicate and talk about their feelings

me w/ my feelings:

they age like fine wine