Drama Triangle - it takes (at least) 3 to play
Be careful when you accuse someone of causing drama, because if you play any role of the triangle, you are a part of it, too.
In my past, I often felt like the victim. I sometimes would retaliate and become the persecutor. But, my favorite part was that of the rescuer.
Once I learned to see it for what it is - I learned to not jump in to the triangle, especially in the rescuer role. I learned to let the conflict be between the victim, and persecutor, trusting them to find their way to a healthy understanding and resolution, of the problem.
It's not uncommon for a person to start out in one position, and end up in another.
And, sometimes, it starts from a pure misunderstanding of either saying something that's inappropriate (impulsively speaking whatever thought pops into mind), and then it's off to the races.
I've been witnessing a huge drama triangle on Wattpad, with multiple people jumping into the triangle. Thus, my decision to add this lesson I learned in therapy to this book.
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