Finnian had exactly three relationships before moving to America.

1. A girl from Dublin named Anya, who repeatedly cheated on him and criticized his poetry.

2. A British boy named Peter, who constantly made fun of his thick accent

3. And a generally decent Irish boy named Alexander who died of natural causes.

Finnian was hesitant to date John at first, afraid of losing him in some way but warmed up to him quickly and let go of his fears.

(Yep, more angst cuz I can)