Every person has his own life journey. A journey from birth to death, a journey from unrecognised to most recognised person, a journey from one phase to another and so on. Today we will talk about a journey which is different from all the mentioned above. A journey from being someone to being no one. Now you must be wondering how and what is this journey. Let us enroach into this amazing journey. Like I've always said that at one point of time you can be someone's world and the very next moment of time you'll be no one to that person. The journey from no one to someone takes a lot of time but the one from someone to no one may happen in seconds. Imagine a person who cares for you, who thinks about you, who talks to you daily, who shares his/her things with you turn silent one day. Shocking, right? Now think about someone whom you trusted a lot and he/she behaves nice in front of you but at your back talks rubbish about you. Strange again. This phenomena is called as back bitching. You never know if you're the one getting backbitched. But yes if you notice your friend turning silent, you should ask him/her what's wrong. Maybe he/she is in a problem which can't be shared. It's your call after all whether you choose to be silent with your silent friend or choose to help him/her get out of that silence phase. You must be thinking that I went out of the topic as we were discussing the journey of someone to no one and we began with the topic of back bitching and silence. But actually this is all related to our topic. How? If we choose to stay silent with our silent friend then we choose to become no one in his/her life. The journey of someone to no one begins with a basic mistake which may be done by us or may be done by the other side. Now it depends upon the understanding level of both sides on how to deal with this mistake. As some mistakes are done purposely with just a sober and good intent behind it. I know hardly someone today sees this intention thing but still it is important. If the mistake is done with a good intention it is forgivable and the journey of being no one in someone's life can be stopped. We always think from a single side. We judge a person on the basis of external appearances. This is all what is the root cause of you being someone to no one in a person's life. As we say we can't clap with a single hand unless and until we get a support, the mistake is not just from one side. If we wish , we can rectify  our mistakes and save ourselves from the future phase of being no one. The journey doesn't end even after you become no one. But yes, sometimes other factors like time are also cause of this journey and we can't control that. As we say , a coin has two sides, every topic has its own pros and cons.
Now it's your call that you wanna be happy as someone or as no one. To be honest, there is nothing wrong in being no one. People think that being no one it not good but it's not so. Being someone is also better and being no one is also better. If you have someone in your lives you share your problems, happiness, sorrows with him or her. If you have no one in your life you share everything with yourself. It's not necessary that you need someone to complete your life. You and only you can complete yourself. Some people need someone to make them feel complete while some people spend time with their own selves to feel complete. I am no one to give a perspective of right and wrong as it differs from person to person. The choice lies in your hands. Even I'm someone in the lives of some people and became no one after a point of time. But still I have no regrets. "People who accept you the way you are or just bring a good change in you or help you get rid of a bad habit or just support you in your good works are your real friends for whom you'll be someone in their lives and for rest even if you try to be someone you'll land as being no one." At the end I would conclude by saying that "it's your decision" where you want to be someone and where no one. Nobody else can decide that. Your control is in your hands and not someone else's hands.