Women ?? Arent they oppressed??

The value of wome in islam is HUGE. 

People say that we are restricted and that we are inferior to men. But lets not forget that these women were made from mans rib, NOT from his legs to be looked down upon and NOT from his head or shoulders to be called superior.

In the world people, normal humans make me feel inferior to men when my Lord clearly said that, men and womens are equals, in somethings men have more knowlegde than women and in others women over men. 

Why do the people and society keeps on talking rubbish about how women are treated soo poorly in our religion ?

Is staying home and wanting to look after the kids and doing home chores instead, a sin ?? 

If a women wants to work, let me tell u that they can. Its no big deal !!! 

She IS allowed to work provided that her husband is happy with her working and that she does proper hijab ( covers herslf properly).

Sometimes their occurs problems in some realtionships because the husband was jealous of his working wifes male colleagues or because she didnt come home on time or she doesnt spend enough time with the kids.

Its a different thing when a women HAS to work to feed her family due to financial reasons, and its a completely different thing when a women WANTS to because she is, u know just bored at home, or wants to work to get some extra money in her pocket.

Am not saying its bad, am just saying it creates problems in relationships. 

But if her husband is supportive she can work. 

My mother works too, but from home and insha Allah am planning on working too because i want to help people for Allahs sake ( i aint becomeing a dentist for nothing now ).

But seriously ask the poor working women how much they wanna quit there jobs because they feel horrible that they cant spend time with there kids or how much hectic its for them to juggle a house, kids and work, these women CANNOT leave there job because they NEED to work for some or the other financial reasons.

NEWS FLASH : WORKING WOMEN ARE IN NO WAY SUPERIOR TO MEN !!! 

NEITHER ARE WORKING MEN SUPERIOR TO WOMEN!!!

Mans job is to work and provide for his family and to protect them. 

A women is a home maker, THATS THE BIGGEST JOB OF ALL. 

Working doesnt make someone superior over the other.

Always remember that ur intention should b pure in everything that u do, because that is counted by Allah. 

If u intend to do something with the intention of pleaseing ur Lord then ull surely gain success and also be reward by Allah.

The Messenger of Allah ( pbuh ) has said: ' Be kind to women. '

Islam honours women as daughters and encourages us to raise them well.

It is said that when Allah is happy with u He sends guests. 

When He is even more happy He allows it to rain. 

And when He is even even more happy He gives daughters.

Ive heard some girls say 

' How come guys have sooo much freedom??!! Why can they go out when they what to and where they want to while girls have to stay home or have time restrictions and all??' 

For people who think that can u just tell me what will happen if u let a girl go where ever she wants to go, whatever time she wants to go??

Cant people who say islam is soo restriced c that their were restrictions to stuff only because a girls safety was involved?? Do not deny the fact that some guys wanna use there dicks more than there brains or heart.

In some countries its not safe for girls to roam about alone or why even alone!! The ones in groups are also being attacked, either raped or sold off or something like that.

If i remember well then it was only last year when a horrible rape incident occured in India, where a Final year student was brutely gang raped in a bus and then a rod was pushed into her vagina. She died a few days after. She was out late at night with a guy friend who was beaten up, gratefully he survived.

Go out, have fun but cover urself properly so that u dont catch unwanted attention and come home before dark or atleast not after midnight because the world is not safe for girls, not even one bit. We may know martial arts and what not but remember guys r stronger they were made that way, u might fight them off like some girls do in the movies but not all the time or in situations where they can over power you. 

Better be safe than sorry girls :)

The society protrayed islam as a restricted religion although it is because of the society that the restrictions were made. 

I wont deny that we have restrictions in our religion, because i understand their importance. 

I undertstand that these restricts 

are for my safety, for the safety of all the women.

There are a lottt of girls out their who wish they were a boy. They think boys can get away with everything. What these girls forget is the fact that in this world ya probably boys can get away with almost everything. 

Flirting, haveing relationships before marriage, affairs, being a man whore, u name it, because our society lets them get away with it and lashes out on girls instead. 

Remember these guys have to go stand infront of Allah too. And that they have to answer for all the wrong and or unjust things they did.

Yes, guys have lots and lots of fun and adventures and what not but :

. A muslim womens entry into Paradise is through any door she wishes, just like Abu Bakr Siddique ( the best frnd of the Prophet Mohammad pbuh ) he was the only one who was granted this honor. 

The Prophet Mohammad ( pbuh ) said : If a women prayes her 5 daily prayers, fasts in the month of Ramadan, guards her private parts and obeys her husband, it will b said to her to enter Paradise through which ever gate she wishes. 

. A women who dies while giveing birth is regarded as a matyr 

. A women who dies before her husband and he was pleased with her gets Paradise for herself. 

. A women who gives birth is forgiven ALL her sins. 

. For every ounce of breast milk fed to a child, the women is rewarded. 

. A girl who dies a virgin is given the status of a matyr. 

. Paradise lies under the feet of the mother.

Tell me would you really wanna become a guy just to have fun and leave all THAT ^ ??? 

Sure even guys have there benifits but its an honor to be born a girl.

Granted that majority of women are seen in hell, but NEWS FLASH ITS BECAUSE OF THE WAY THEY TREAT THERE HUSBAND OR BECAUSE OF GOSSIPING.

The Majority in Hell are 

Women!!!!!!!! 

It was narrated from the Prophet 

(peace and blessings of Allaah be 

upon him) that women will form 

the majority of the people of Hell. 

: "I looked into Paradise 

and I saw that the majority of its 

people were the poor. And I 

looked into Hell and I saw that the 

majority of its people are 

women." 

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 3241; 

Muslim, 2737)

The Women of Hell Fire. Prophet 

(saw) said: "O ALi, on the night of 

my ascension (Miraj) I saw 

women of my ummah who were 

being severily punished that I 

became concerned for them and 

started cyring. 

I saw a woman who had been 

hung by her breast. 

Then I saw a second woman who 

was eating her own flesh and fire 

raged below her. 

A third woman was hanging by 

her tongue and boiling water was 

being poured down her throat. 

A fourth was bent over, her hands 

and feet were tied together,and 

snakes and scorpions were 

crawling all over her 

A fifth was deaf, dumb, and blind, 

enclosed in a cage of fire, her 

brain oozing out of the holes in 

her skull. Her body fell apart due 

to leprosy. 

Another was hung by her feet, 

inside and over. 

Yet another woman's body was 

being shredded to pieces by 

scissors made of fire. 

One woman had a head of a pig 

and a body of a donkey and was 

given several punishments. 

Another had the face of a dog, fire 

was entering her body from her 

posterior and come out of her 

mouth and the angels were 

beating her with iron rods."

Fatimah ( the daughter of the Prophet Mohammad pbuh) then inquired her father, 'Please, tell me, what did these women do(to deserve such punishment)?'

Then the Prophet Sallallaahu alayhi wa sallam said :

'Listen my dear;  

.The one who was hanging by her breast used to deny her husband, his righful pleasure;  

.The one hanging by her feet used to go out of her house without her husband's permission; 

.The one eating her own flesh used to beautify herself and show her body to men other than her husband  

.The one who's hands and feet were tied together and covered with snakes and scorpions never to care impurity and wasn't careful about ghusl, thus taking her prayer lightly; .The deaf, blind, and dumb, used to bear children through adultery but claim the children belonged to her husband; 

.The one whose body was being cut by scissors made of fire never observed hijab in front of non mahrem men ( Men other than the ones she cant marry or in simple words leaveing her father, own brother, grand fathers, and paternal and maternal uncles, father in law and husband rest all men are non mehrams, the ones whom she can marry are non mehrams ) 

.The one whose body was burned and who was eating her own intestines used to provide other woman for sex ;  

.The one with the face of a pig and a body of a donkey was a backbiter and a liar. 

.And those with the face of a dog and who had fire entering her behind and coming out of her face was a jealous woman.

May Allah(SWT) protect us from the punishment of the grave and the punishment of the hell fire and grant us Janaat ul firdous. Ameen

Its in ur hands what you want to have, either you could be chaste and virtuos and gain rewards and enter Paradise or be someone who Allah isnt pleased with becaused she caused havoc in not only her life but also the life of others by gossiping and ignoreing her husband and also by disobeying Allah.

If u dont like ur husband anymore atleast give him the benifit of the doubt and talk and clear stuff out or divorce him. Its in ur hands what life u wanna choose, so choose carefully because :

When ur a daughter you open the door of Al Jannah ( Heaven ) for your father. 

When you are a wife your complete half the deen of your husband. 

When your a mother Al Jannah ( Heaven ) lies under your feet. 

If everyone knew the true status of a muslim women in islam , even the men would want to be women.

Respect islam instead of lashing out on it. Allah isnt getting benefitted by makeing some rules for us, its us who get benefitted. 

Allah doesnt need us, we need HIM. 

Without HIM we are doomed, no one can save us from an eternity of hell fire or from the fires of the world if HE turns HIS back on us. 

I am proud to be a muslimah ( women in islam ) but are u??