Changing one's mind

When do we decide

that one is not a good person? 

When can a person say 

to one, you need to change.

We say every person is a story for itself.

Everyone is different

and special in its own way. 

Be yourself, don't change for anyone,

you do you...

But only until you do you like I want you to.

Untile you are yourself

but fit my criteria. 

You can be special

until your story is the same as mine.

I need to change you so you will fit in,

so you will be a good person, kind and polite.

Is this allowed?

But what if in the eyes of someone I am in need of change?

Do I need to change as well?

I do not want to do that.

If I will not try to change you, 

will you do the same? 

But what if a person is really bad,

can I say something then?

By whos standard is the person considered bad,

yours?

But there are bad people out there,

what about them?

One will fall down the hole he digs in his lifetime.

One will get what is coming to him, 

not by the hand of people but the hand of life.