A/N: I found this on archiveofourown/ bead...loved what they said about how dwarf men are taught these laws for how to treat their One love so to keep them happy. It makes sense for the men to learn this, since only 1 out of 3 births are female and not all females marry...so to keep them happy and possibly want to marry...here's what the men pass down man to man thru the ages on what rules to make her happy.

A wife should never have to ask for love. Her husband should learn to see when she wants his touch, by her glances, the movements of her body, the tone of her voice. He should listen, not with just his ears, but body and heart, to the touches that please her most and give them to her, unstintingly. Give of your body as you do your mind and heart to her, and she will be most content.

If you find your One, know she is the other half of your spirit, but wholly herself. Do not seek to trap her to keep her near, to force her to your will, but set yourself before her eyes and open your heart, so that she may see the whole of you, and her heart may open in return to seek yours.

Done in all honor and in earnest, she can become your beloved true companion in life and you will be hers joined at the heart, in body, in mind, and in spirit. This always should be your aim in marriage, and the greatest treasure you will ever find.