Man, do they never get tired of acting tough all the time? Always showing off like they're some sort of God, claiming to have created everything with their own hands. They make all the decisions for themselves, yet they constantly make excuses for not becoming powerful, blaming a lack of resources. He has everything he needs, except the courage to step up and present himself to the world. We asked him if he likes the girl, if he wants her to be a virgin, if he will accept her once she's ready to embrace all his beliefs. She's willing to serve his parents and follow their traditions, but after marriage, she's not even allowed to leave her family to visit her mother.

If she even talks to her mother on the phone, her man starts shouting at her, accusing her mother of trying to create problems between them. "Great, now your mother is teaching you some tricks to cause trouble! She wants to make us fight!" he yells. Yet he visits his own mother every day, while she isn't even allowed a phone call once in two months. What does he think of himself? A powerful man? Oh, honey, he's nothing but a coward afraid of any woman who might expose his true self. Why can't he accept that being a good man is just as important as being strong? Sure, being strong is necessary to protect your family, but she can protect herself, too. She's well-educated, and her father has raised her to be strong enough to build an empire greater than his. But she can only do that if he stops trying to control her and lets her be free.

Let her live; give her some space to breathe, as she's suffocating in your kingdom! If you love her deeply, build her a balcony where she can have some time alone, to remind herself she still has a life of her own. Having children may have been her decision, but forcing her to abandon her work to clean up after them is entirely yours. Let her savor the sweetness of croissants from a bookshop café. Let her embrace the style of a Victoria purse. Let her eyes sparkle with the thought of her dream man. But that's impossible, because you're not a man—maybe just a boy—who wants to treat her like a tool, to use her and then claim she's your captive.

She is a woman, your woman. Teach her how to write well, help clear her overthinking, and talk with her. Dance with her in the rain, bring her flowers, and kiss her—that's your job. Nobody wants your money or your muscles; they want your kindness, your love, and to be a part of your life, whether it's heaven or hell. She's not refusing to live with you in a lion's den, where she fears you might command the lion to devour her. Men can be scary, but they shouldn't be intimidating to the world, but to the ones they love. She should be able to look into your eyes and say, "I feel safe with you," even if you're sitting there soaked in blood or pointing a revolver. I wanted to write good about you, man, but you're just a coward. You all deserve a slap of love.

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Perhaps women are also becoming more comfortable with comfort itself. Shouldn't they be? What do you think, your highness? you should stop telling men they have to be tough all the time. Don't be selfish, be there for them when they need you the most. Stop teaching them that they have to stand on their own two feet before they're even eighteen. Don't expect him to give you love on demand. All you really need is a book, coffee, money, and a sassy attitude. But don't use that sassiness to argue with your man or his family over money.

Loving a man isn't about exchanging money, it's about sharing emotions, even if he's not perfect in that regard. If you're asking him for an expensive pink maxi dress, why not sew him a Blackberry suit for the office the next day? Picking up the towel from the bed isn't a big deal, but treating your man like an open bank is. Stop changing your man, that's how they end up becoming playboys. You break their hearts after their families do, so don't expect them to be there for you when you're undressing for some wealthy guy! all is saying that Women don't get too comfortable with money.

There's one thing people often overlook: love isn't just about affection. A man might want a woman's intimacy at night, while a woman might seek a man's arm when she's in a Gucci shop, holding his arm tightly. Yet, that grip may loosen when she notices another man, with his wife, wearing a more expensive watch. Their glances might meet, and the search for a one-night stand begins. I won't call women gold diggers since I'm a woman writer myself, but if she's looking at your blue denim jeans back pocket filled with gold while snaking her arms around you, then maybe she is. You're allowed to show off your legs and the cleavage to the world, but don't shame him in public by boasting that you left him, because he didn't deserve that.

Teach him how to express his emotions to you. Teach him to kneel down and show his devotion, teach him how to have fun with you, and teach him to enjoy breakfast with his family in the morning. But always stand shoulder to shoulder with him, ready to support him when he feels lost. Be prepared, even in your favorite lingerie, with a hidden knife, to protect him and fend off any threats to his well-being.

Be a woman who touches his hand, giving him goosebumps all over his body. Kiss his nose, showing how eager you are for him to take charge. Kiss his forehead, sharing every moment of your life with him. Ask him to make you breakfast after he's had his way with you all night. Lick his sweat, letting him know you enjoy his every command and love every aspect of him, even if it involves a kink like choking during sex—that his uniqueness is something you cherish. Be a woman who teaches him that holding the same hand that just touched his cheek defines love, and kiss it before going for round two.

Even if it brings tears to both of your eyes, teach each other how to embrace your gender roles, and most importantly, strive to understand each other and set aside your freaking Egos!

12:38 PM.