It is easy to spend of your days beating up on yourself for past mistakes.We analyze that relationship that failed and relentlessly review all the things we did wrong.
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Or we look at that bussiness decision that cost us so much and dwell on the things we could have done right.Once and all stop being so hard on yourself.you are a human being and human beings have been designed to make mistakes.As long as you don"t keep making the same errors and have the good errors and have the good judgment to let your past serve you,you will be on the right track.

Accept them and move On.as Mark Twain wrote,
_"we should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it-
and stop there;lest we be like the cat thats sits down on a hot stove lid.it will never sit down on a hot stove lid again__

and that is well;but also it will never sit down On a cold one anymore."

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Coming to the realization that we all make mistakes and that they are essential to our growth and progress is liberating.
We lost the need to be perfect and adopt a saner way of viewing our lives.we can begin to flow through life the way a mountain stream flows through a leafy a forest,powerfully yet gracefullly,we can finalllly be at peace with our true nature.

An excellent way to rise high to a higher level of enlighten ment and personal wisdom is to make a list of the ten biggest mistakes you have made in your life on the left-hand side of a page within your journal.
Then,
On the right side,write down the corresponding lessons you have learned from every mistake and benefits the actualllly flowed into your life as a result of those so-called failures.

You will soon see that your life would not be rich and colorful without the mistakes of your past.So be gentler to yourself and see for what it realllly is:a path of self-discovery,personal growth and liflong learning.

letely I've been replacing my"I'm sorry"s with"thank
you"s,like instead of"sorry I'm late"i'll say "thanks for waiting for me."or instead of "sorry for being such as mess"i'll say"thank you for loving me and caring about me unconditionallly,and it's not only shifted the way i think and feel about myself but also improved my relationships with my wattpad friends instead of my negativity.

Thank you

have a nice life❤