Embarrassment/ insult/ humiliation are all synonyms of each other .

We all know what an insult means but still let me try to access it a bit .

What is actually Insult ?
INSULT  is any action or verbals  that hurts  or offends  anyone.

Everyone  must have faced insult/embarrassment /  humiliation since this is not something new or rare .

It's feels hurtful, suffocating and disappointing when you  face insult. All you want is to melt into a puddle of water or just quit when such incidents happen.  Insult feels an instant invisible slap on the face which pricks heart , mind and soul all at same time. It usually triggers the emotional  strings of the heart .

People become bitter/ angry/  sad /disheartened .Some even become antisocial because keeping oneself away from the people insulting seems the best option. But the above responses to insult causes emotional damage and it even hinders  personal growth of the person subject to insult/embarrassment/humiliation.

Insults are like daggers which hurts a person emotionally but still Insults and humiliation exists predominantly.  So, now we will  look at  the different root causes of this issue .

CAUSES

Anger /Annoyance are  major reasons.  May be  that person is angry or annoyed with you .

Hatred /dislike is also a cause of this problem.  The person insulting you really  dislike or even hate you .

Jealousy  can also be the cause .Often  a  jealous  person  tries  to bring down you through  insults/humiliation.

To push you out of your  comfort zone and to make  achieve your targets /goals/ dreams . This reason seems  interesting and  constructive .

To seek their own entertainment or pleasure by insulting/mocking basically there are people who find joy in hurting/insulting/humiliating  others .To be precise these people have a saddist tendency.

To show that they are more capable and  more intelligent than you , to basically self boast about their own capabilities on  the cost of your  confidence .

To sound cool or to bully you .

CURE

If an anger or annoyed person insults you then handle him with calmness. Know the cause of his anger/annoyance. If you find his anger  is  relevant  then politely ask for apology. If you find his anger irrational then take a stand of yourself  with gentleness and  politeness in your way of speaking.If that person does not understand your point then it's better to let him in own cloud of false assumptions because his anger /irrelevant  stubborness  is only harmful for him not you at all .

When a hater or disliker  insults you then ignore him because haters gonno hate they won't  shower with kind words  so , ignoring them  is the best option and your thoughts should be free  of  such people. If they cross limits then show them their limit by a befitting  reply to  shut their  foul mouths .

Jealous person won't be able to see you happy and succeeding. These people show be avoided/ignored totally Don't think about them rather focus on your life  ,your happiness and success will a befitting reply for such people.

This is an interesting and constructive reason. People belonging to this category  are your well wishers .They motivate you by making  certain hurtful statements to you so that they can push you out of your comfort zone and help you to achieve your targets.

Saddist  people seek their  pleasure in insulting you .They feel happy when they see you remorse , crying or demotivated .Don't give these people chance to seek  pleasure from your pain.  Don't let their insult affect you anyhow . Instead be happy and cheerful  and your smile will be a  perfect reply for them .

To people showing off than their skills are better your silence ,your hardwork  and firm determination are the best  reply from your side .

Those who insult you just to sound cool or to bully  you .Seek help from a kind person who can tackle them. If you are alone nobody around to help you then give these tic tac because these people bully more when they see  you fearing them .The moment they will see your you fearless and retorting back confidently they will backoff from bullying you because they will you as a  potent threat to  themselves.

To sum up all .I will say that " Insults should be written in sands and compliments should be carved in  stones". Never take insults to your heart and forget them easily and rather remember the compliments who have received to keep yourself  motivated.