Why do ya'll compare me to others

Like I'll never good enough
Like I'll never match your standards
Ok so I have some flaws
Ok so I'm not like them
Can't you just leave me alone?

Why must you compare
Can't you just see me
Not everything I'm not?
Why can't you just see

Your killing me
I'm not as perfect
That I'll never be

I'll shine on my own
I don't need your approval
I'll discard what you say
I'll learn not to care
So you can't break  me down
So I'll fly up